5 Myths about How Kids Learn to Sew
Myth #1: That they have to learn a certain way, or start with a specific project
I call this the “Home Economics/FACS teacher fallacy”. What might work or be necessary in a school class with 20+ students, 50% of whom don’t really want to be there, is totally different than working with one or two young people that you know. Each sewist is unique and can have different interests. One sewist may love designing and piecing quilts, while another may be totally into fashion design for their dolls. Let their interests guide your instruction.
Myth #2: That they will learn it quickly
If you or the individual teaching a young sewist has been sewing for many years, you have probably forgotten how difficult it can be to master the basics. Cutting fabric in a straight line, sewing in a straight line (let’s not even talk about sewing curves!!!!!), and even forming a knot in thread are all skills that take practice to learn. Don’t let the “rough” appearance of some of their work discourage you–learning is a process, and each individual will progress at different rates.
Myth #3: That they will love every minute of it
Ok, let’s be honest here…..there will be tears, and possibly even slammed doors. And that’s just from you, the teacher haha. Seriously, though, because sewing requires learning new skills, and is therefore a process, there will be times when the results do not match the expectations. For a young person, that can be overwhelming and lead to “big emotions”. That’s ok. This is how you and your young person learn perseverance and patience. That’s pretty cool, huh? Push through the hard moments, and the fun, exciting moments of the creative skill learning process will come back around. I promise!
Myth #4: That they have to start with hand sewing (or machine sewing)
I believe that a young person determined to sew an item will learn whatever they have to learn to finish the project. Putting too many “you have to do it this way” barriers in their path may prevent them from doing so. This doesn’t mean you don’t talk about safety, just that you are in the business of equipping them for learning.
Myth #5: That it’s too dangerous
Yes, needles are sharp, and sewing machines should be used under supervision. In my experience, though, most kids are pretty cautious with both. When Janessa first started using a sewing machine (age 8), she barely pressed the pedal and stopped frequently. I didn’t even know you COULD sew that slowly!!!! Watching that is excruciating, but that’s my problem not hers, hahaha. Just talk about essential safety information and keep the band aids close!
